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Among Those Allah Loves: Qualities Loved By The Most Merciful
Day 4: The Character of Those Allah Loves
Quran Verses
Lesson & Reflection
Being loved by Allah is not limited to prayer mats and private devotion; it’s revealed in how we treat others. Justice, reliance, and humility are qualities Allah names as beloved to Him.
Surah Al-Ma’idah (5:42) praises the muqsitīn (those who are just). Justice in Islam isn’t selective or situational. It means speaking the truth even against ourselves or loved ones, being fair in business, leadership, and everyday dealings, and defending the oppressed. Allah commands: “Make peace between them in fairness and act justly. Surely Allah loves those who uphold justice.” (Quran 49:9)
In Surah Aal-‘Imran (3:159), Allah loves those who rely upon Him: the people of tawakkul. These are not people who sit idly; they strive, plan, and work, but their hearts rest with Allah. They know outcomes are His alone. Tawakkul is the farmer planting seeds, knowing that rain only comes from Allah. It is the heart’s anchor in storms.
Then comes the trait that binds these virtues: humility. Surah Luqman (31:18) condemns pride and arrogance. The Prophet (peace be upon him) taught us that even an atom’s weight of arrogance can bar someone from Paradise (Sunan Ibn Majah 59). True humility means knowing our place before Allah and among His creation. It’s being soft when we want to dominate, silent when we want to gloat, and generous when we want to hold back.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) was the highest example of humility, sitting with the poor, helping his companions, and forgiving those who wronged him. He lived among people as one of them, even though he was the best of creation. If you want Allah to love you, walk humbly in the world, serve others sincerely and justly, and place your trust in Him.
These traits are not seasonal or superficial. They are deeply rooted qualities that Allah loves. And those who adopt them are promised His love.
Hadith
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “No one humbles himself for the sake of Allah but that Allah raises him.” (Sahih Muslim 2588)
Practical Activity:
- Practice quiet justice: Do one act of fairness today – privately, without seeking praise. It could be giving someone their due, speaking up for someone, or apologizing sincerely.
- Trust and let go: Identify one matter stressing you. Say: “I rely on Allah,” then release it to Him after taking the steps you can.
- Choose humility: Step back in a conversation. Let someone else speak. Serve someone without being asked.
Dua
O Allah, make me among those who are just, humble, and reliant upon You. Beautify my character with what pleases You.
Reflection Question
Do I only seek Allah’s love in rituals, or do I reflect His beloved qualities in my dealings with people each day?